How to dress for a date with a cool guy : modest version

Yeah, I'm thinking about the outfit I've shared with you a couple of days ago. This one http://how2dress4.blogspot.fr/. Well, I think the outfit was great, but someone described it as "skimpy". I proposed a version with black ballerina shoes to tune down the so-called skimpiness, but still.

Well, some people don't like to have so much skin on display. I get it. Depending on where you live, this could be seen as provocative. So, you can wear the same outfit with dark pantyhose.

If you choose to do so, you can still put the ballerina shoes on, but the other shoes won't do. Perhaps, you should try these on
 That's a date, right so it's okay to wear high heels. The higher, the better, right? Well, not if the cool guy is shorter than you. You might want to stick with the ballerinas if your date is shorter than you. Some guys don't really care about being shorter than their dates. For others, it is a sensitive subject.  Try not to make them feel self-conscious.

Well, when  you want to dress up, you should put your family values first. Fashion changes all the time.